Suicide is Painless !

Suicide is painless but not for the victims and survivors left behind !
I sat in a room a few years ago with a man crying and very distraught as he had heard that the man who had sexually abused him as a child had taken his own life the day before he was due in court to face the charges that had finally been brought against him after a campaign for years to see justice. It seemed to him that it was his last act of abuse taking away any control he could have over the situation.... I tried to console him saying that the most important thing was that he was no longer around to perpetrate any further crimes but I completely understood as I had been angry for a year when the main perpatrator of the abuse against me as a child had died and I had yet to make a police report at that point. The wave of sympathy being stoked up and allegations of mishandling of allegations are ignoring the victims and survivors. Several woman made allegations against Carl Sargeant and the latest suicide of a "Labour HQ staffer" must be assumed that the "porn" found on his computor was not run of the mill but forensic evidence of a crime. The families of these men will of course be upset but so would they have been knowing that their relatives were rapists or child abusers. We cannot forgive and forget as it is the victims and survivors who suffer most with a life long sentence and those who take in this case the cowards way out who have "The pains that are withheld for me"Survivors must not allow these actions to again increase the victim blaming or further shame but continue to demand justice
"A brave man once requested me To answer questions that are key"